Rabbi's Sermon
Susan B. Anthony (18201906), American
Women’s Rights Advocate, wrote, “I distrust those people who
know so well what God wants them to do, because I notice it
always coincides with their own desires.” I think of this every
time I read or hear about someone pontificating on what God
wants from us and for us. It amuses me that there are those who
proclaim to be in direct contact with God, and it is because of
this so-called connection, they attempt to control our every
thought and action.
To ascribe this to arrogance would be to
underestimate the detriment to which they affect our lives.
Perhaps we could describe these people as sanctimonious. The
clear indication is that there are people who think they are
better than others and use God as the justification for their
feelings.
Perhaps we should attempt to understand the
purpose for which faith was installed in our psyche. Faith, to
me, is synonymous with hope. Each gives us the opportunity to
make sense of our lives, no matter what direction is followed.
That is exactly what Scripture is intended to inculcate in us.
The words found in these various writings are there to help us
understand human nature and the various relationships we
discover as time progresses.
Whether one believes that these words are
inspired or the result of revelations does not alter the fact
that human behavior is dictated by moral responsibility and the
attitude of right and wrong. These are the fundamentals of a
civilized society as prescribed by God. Still, we are just
human. I believe this humanity gives us an added responsibility.
To attain a level of attempting to emulate God is not an easy
task. We are so fragile and susceptible to so many distortions.
The Prophets attempted to reinforce this
concept of goodness by illustrating what can become of us if we
destroy the very fabric of our existence. They illustrate in
prose the things we can do to ourselves that can surely be
inherited by those who follow. When Scripture talks about the
sins of the fathers carrying forward to our progeny, it is
describing what can result if we do not realize the harm of not
recognizing the path of destruction. It is not a curse, but
rather a warning.
Closed minds lead to closed thoughts, and,
in turn, to dogmatic approaches to our existence. Living life
with no peripheral vision is tantamount to walking around with a
blindfold, cutting off not only vision, but light as well. Think
of it as walking into a dark room, feeling our way, groping for
support, and only realizing redemption when a light appears.
Being judgmental or critical is a form of
abuse and is contrary to what faith is intended to accomplish.
Acceptance and encouragement are what is needed if we are to
find fulfillment. Jealousy leads to contempt. Satisfaction with
our lot eliminates frustration. Gratitude gives us the ability
to accept what is, with an eye toward what could be, if we try.
Perhaps Susan B. Anthony was attempting to
teach us these very things. Perhaps Scripture can instill in us
the understanding that we are responsible for our actions
because they affect not only ourselves, but those around us as
well. Perhaps we can and should feel better, not because we
followed some prescribed order or spoke words that are lost as
they are uttered, but rather because we have a clearer picture
of our purpose – not because someone told us to, but because we
know full well the impact of these words, and because we can
come together in the one place designed to help us understand a
little better: our houses of worship.
And we can understand that our lives were placed in our
hands, not someone else’s.
Rabbi Irwin Wiener, D.D